Reflections
I have now been away from India for 2 weeks and in that time I have thought a lot about what I have seen and done there. It was the most eye-opening and revealing 6 weeks of my life. It was also one of the hardest. From the busy chaos of Hyderabad to the pristine streets of Perth, it seems impossible to imagine that these cities are on the same planet. That the day-to-day existences led by the people in each city are so incredibly different. Yet they are.
Inequality in the world and uneven distribution of wealth is something that I have always known about and whilst I always knew it was unfair, somehow I to put it to the back of my mind. From the comfort of my home, teaching in schools with desks and chairs, teaching children who had shoes on their feet, getting free medical care in well-maintained hospitals, life conspires to make you think that all is OK.
Occasionally we hear about natural disasters or humanitarian relief drives needed due to drought, famine, war. Briefly, these extremes are brought into our consciousness and we often dig deep and donate to such causes. Children learn about disasters and they want to help – so they send their pocket money or they have cake sales to do their bit. I remember so clearly Live Aid in 1985. It was probably the first time I realised that there were children in the world who were starving, whose lives were hard, who died because they simply ran out of energy to keep their bodies going. Such exposure to this poverty through the eyes of the media helped to create in me compassion for others and a desire to do the right thing to make the world a more equal place.
The years went by and whilst I never forgot the images of starving children in Ethiopia and the spectacle of the Live Aid concert, somehow the memories became blurred. Somehow they faded into the back of my mind as I lived my life, only popping up again when the news reports some humanitarian disaster or other.
Now though, I have lived in a world for 6 weeks that has children living in extreme poverty everywhere. India is an incredibly busy place – there really are people everywhere. It is like central London in the run up to Christmas. Except these people are not splurging on the excesses of the season, they are simply trying to get by, to survive. Hyderabad and Vijayawada, where I spent most of my time, were filled with impoverished, destitute people and I hope I have given you some insight into those places here in my blog. People, in vast numbers, are struggling to live day to day and yet I, a compassionate, caring, socially motivated person had never even heard of these places only a year ago. The people just get on with their daily lives without complaint, without expectation, just striving to earn enough money to keep the wolf from the door that day. They ask for nothing, there is no humanitarian disaster, no political upheaval wrenching the country into anarchy, no famine, drought or earthquake. These people are just poor and that just doesn’t make news.
India is currently placed 134th out of 187 countries in the Human Development Index (2 places below Iraq). This index measures well-being using things such as life expectancy, literacy & education. It is also a good indicator of child welfare. And yet, in the UK all I heard about India before I visited was that it has a burgeoning economy and is a rapidly developing nation. This may be true, but for the every day child who has nothing, the idea of economic growth is meaningless. In reality, many, many children go to bed hungry. Most cannot afford health care. Children are abandoned by parents who fear their child may be HIV positive and cannot cope. Many have no running water, no electricity, no sanitation. And yet we never hear of them. They really are the forgotten children of the world.
So, some 26 years after I first realised that people in the world starve and perish through poverty, I have seen poverty first hand. I have tried to give my readers some insight into the world I have seen and the reality of this vast, peaceful, uncomplaining but poor nation. Emotionally this journey has challenged me more than I can say and I have been stripped bare of my sugar-coated view of the world. The reality is that life is tough. That life is cheap and that it is beholden on those of us who ‘have‘ to help those who ‘have not’. That is where HEAL really comes in. I am proud to have seen the direct impact that HEAL has on so many children. It is a small charity with big ambitions and it makes the difference every day in India.
As Christmas approaches, I know everyone will be buying gifts, food, things for festive cheer. I will be too. In amongst all this though I wonder if I could ask you to spare a little for HEAL. I know that there relentless charity requests and that you are all asked often to donate here and there. But I also know that this small charity called HEAL is something special. They spend no money on admin, they have no paid staff, and they really do make a difference every day. As I have said previously, the school we are planning to open really is a kernel of hope in the great expanse of Andhra Pradesh. So, if you can, please give by clicking the following link. You will see that it takes you to Just Giving for a bike ride….that is right! Just Giving – Zoe and Amanda
In January as part of my time with HEAL, I am doing a sponsored bike ride in Kerala, India with my sister-in-law, Zoe. Those of you who know us well will realise that neither of us are natural athletes! In fact neither of us have really ridden a bike for years. Nevertheless we have decided to do a 350km bike ride over 5 days in January to raise money for HEAL. Please can I ask you to consider sponsoring us for our ride. It is really easy to do, just click on the following link and you will be taken to our Just Giving Page. If you would prefer to donate in person, that is fine too. And remember, every little helps and every penny will be used wisely and have a direct impact in India. Just Giving – Zoe and Amanda
I hope you have enjoyed reading my blogs over the last couple of months. I wanted to share this incredible experience with you all. I also want to wish you all a very Happy Christmas and New Year. xx






































